How to get your ex back? - No Contact Rule

 

106 Pages | How to get your ex back? - No Contact Rule

When a relationship (especially a long and happy one) ends, the ending event and the weeks following it are traumatic for both sides. But most relationships are not ended after a mutual agreement and so the pain and trauma is not equal for both. For the person who is dumped, the split usually comes as a shock and deep pain. The dumper does not feel the same amount of pain and it is usually not a shock for them.

Since you are looking at this book, you are probably either dumped or you think you will be dumped soon. You are asking a lot of questions:

• Is my ex over me?
• Is my ex thinking about me?
• Is my ex missing me?
• Is my ex seeing someone?
• Will my ex’s new relationship/rebound lasts?
• Will my ex come back?
• How can I get over my ex?

We will talk about these topics in this book. More, we will develop a game plan to handle all of these questions and problems.

But first, I must warn you! The no contact rule is far more successful than the commandments of love / romanticism myths (should I say religion?) but it is against everything you have heard from popular culture through movies, songs and novels. Don’t worry, I will explain why no contact rule is superior and why sappy methods of popular culture actually turns you into a creepy stalker who ruins his or her chance with his/her ex (or someone new) in the name of holy “love”. This book can shock and sometimes bother you but it will make you a more grown up adult and more powerful and skillful in the game of love.

Everything you learn in this book works for both genders. It works for ex lovers, ex fiance, ex spouses and ex partners. It works for heterosexual relationships as well as homosexual relationships.

The no contact rule is difficult to apply. It requires emotional strength and patience. It is easier to pursue and plead with your ex (no need for emotional strength or patience to call your ex every day) but as for everything in life, the path requiring patience and strength works and the easy path usually ends up to be a disaster.

Don’t worry. When you understand why no contact works, why you need to be patient and strong; it will be easier for you to have the discipline and motivation to take the right way.

Keywords: How to get your ex back, my ex does not message me, my ex blocked me, stalking ex girfriend/boyfriend on social media, staying friends with ex, does my ex think about me, will my ex call me, when your ex call

Relationship Advice - Tinder date, sex and ghosting

Hi, I have met a girl from Tinder and at the night of the second date, we have hooked up. After we have had sex, she told me that she has just been out from a 1.5 years relationship. She said her ex boyfriend was very abusive. She has dumped him but she still could not get over him. 

Looks like she is looking for rebound relationships. It is not advisable to get very serious early with a girl like this since she has a chance to go back to her ex. You can hook up or casual relationship with her but you should not jump into a serious relationship.

I told her if a men does not respect him, he does not deserve her. She deserves better.

Nope, that is the wrong thing to say. You are basically talking bad about her ex boyfriend and basically saying, "he does not respect you but I, a nice guy, will respect you. So choose me." Slow down Romeo. This shit only works in movies. In real life, talking bad about her ex as a jerk and trying to sell yourself as a nice guy gets you to friend-zone.

Besides she has been with this jerk for 1.5 years and still thinking about him. She probably does not deserve better!

Don't forget this: Nice guys finish last.

Next day I messaged her to setup another date. But she messaged back saying: "I have given a thought and I think I am not ready for a relationship now. If she can make up her mind in a few months, she will call me back.

You probably gave a lot of relationship ready, nice guy vibe to her in these few dates. A man who is relationship ready / "nice" immediately is considered as weak man not a good catch. Why would he be jumping in relationship or behave too nice if he is a man with options.

And in Womenese, "I am not ready for a relationship" means "I am not ready for a relationship WITH YOU". She would probably keep you as Plan B, go and hook up with more men and if she does not find a new dude or go back to ex, she would call you.

I replied: "I would like to see you but I won't sit here and wait for you to call me back. Best of luck and if you change your mind, call me back."

Great answer. You clearly defined what you want, rejected to wait for her and walked away. Or at least you said you will walk away.

A week later, I could not resist the urge and I called her.

WRONG! Very wrong. You said something but your words and behavior are not congruent. This will show you more weak. She walked away from you because you showed weak behavior and you still continue to show weakness. You should not contact her until she contacted you. That is what you do when someone walks away from you.

We met and had great time. But she still told me she is not ready for a relationship. 

Have you ever thought why is she saying "I don't want a relationship." It has been only 3 dates and 1 night of sex. She is talking about a relationship. This is most probably because you either asked or gave vibes for a relationship. Too early man. A relationship request and vibe MUST always come from woman first.

You are probably scared that she will go to ex or find another man and want to cage her into a relationship. As if like she cannot escape from that cage whenever she wants. This is weak man behavior and very few women like weak guys.

I told her in the past it was difficult for me to walk away from a relationship but now I am strong and can do that easily.

Dude, you are bragging but not showing it in your actions. First of all, you just met this girl 3 times and she walked away from you. THERE IS NO RELATIONSHIP HERE. Why do you even talk about relationships?

Second, you could not  even walk away from a girl who blew you off. You talk the talk not walk the walk. You should NEXT her (should not call or message her until she reaches out) not meet her and talk about your "ability" to NEXT her.

We hugged, held hands but she did not let me to kiss her.

Well you should not meet her and let her to come to you.

In the following week, we have texted each other. She always replied my messages but never sent me a message first.

Nope that is week. You tried to be her gay male text friend. Plus she is obviously not interested in you. A girl interested in a man initiates most of the contacts. You are pursuing a girl who rejected you TWICE (I dont want a relationship talk and not letting you ti kiss her).  That is extra weak. You are behaving like a weak and optionless loser. This may be because you are one.

I stopped messaging her a week ago. She has never sent a message. Should I message her?

NO! Do not pursue a woman if she rejects you. NEXT her. Don't call or message her. Remember, you are her Plan-B (after your weaker behavior probably Plan-D) so don't make her a priority.

Or should I wait for her to call me?

YES!  And if she calls, a big IF, call her to your place and hook up with her. Don't spend money on her. She blew you off so she does not deserve it. If she wants to meet outside tell her you are not in a mood to go out and if she changes her mind she can give you a call.

Do not start to be her gay male text girlfriend again. She comes to your place or you are busy to message her. If you politely cut a few messages short, she will either stop messaging you or come to your place.

Which set of Singapore Covid-19 numbers should we pay attention to?

Singapore is dealing with a lot of covid 19 / coronavirus related numbers these days as the number of new cases total is increasing. Most are coming from the dorms some are  coming from community cases. Senior health correspondent Salma Khalik outlines the various sets of Covid-19 numbers, and gives her take on what data the public should pay attention to.

Salma Khalik says the more important data is the number of cases in the community which gives a better idea of how Singapore is doing in our fight against the virus and how circuit breaker measures are working.

"We are getting lots of different figures and the overall figure is quite scary but it does not reflect the circuit breaker measures because a lot of these cases are in foreign worker dormitories" says Salma Khalik.

"If you want to know whether the circuit breaker measures are working then you really need to look at the cases in the community whether they are Singaporeans and PRs or whether they are also
employment pass workers who are living in the community."

But if we focus on just the number of community cases, do we risk not getting a fuller more comprehensive picture of our fight against the virus?

"Actually all the figures are important. It depends very much on what you want to extract from those figures. So overall figures are very important, number of people in hospitals is very important, number of people in intensive care is equally important. So it depends very much on what information you want to extract.

My point is if you're looking at whether the circuit breaker measures are working then you should concentrate on the community cases. But if you're looking at whether it's time to ease the circuit breaker measures then you have to look at all the cases because even the dormitory workers when the circuit breaker measures ease will be coming out into the community to work.

So at different points along this continuum you need to look at different figures and they tell you different things.

Right now somewhat on that note the escalating number of dormitory infections has been a cause of concern for several weeks. Now even though the numbers are high, workers in the dorms are now isolated from the rest of the population."

You wrote that the high numbers are due to Singapore's aggressive and strategic testing. What would be the best way to describe the current situation in the dorms?

"Quite bad. Actually there are good points at bad points. A lot of people will say there's nothing good about people getting sick. But in this case, a lot of the foreign workers are younger and healthier people. They had already moved out the older foreign workers to protect them.

Among the younger workers as of yesterday not a single one of the thousands of workers who have got covid 19 have needed intensive care. So that's very good news because they're getting it mildly and a lot of these people who were identified covid 19 patients actually were not even sick or had such mild symptoms. But because we are now testing a lot of them, people who are in contact with those who have been diagnosed, we are finding them. If we didn't do that we wouldn't have found them.

Moving away from the dorms the health ministry now splits the non-dormitory cases into two categories; Singaporeans / permanent residents / foreigners on an employment pass holders in one
category and foreign worker permit holders not living in dormitories in the other. How is this splitting of the information useful?

"Actually i asked the ministers that at yesterday's press conference and health minister explained that the reason they did the split was because they wanted to find it easier to trace the epidemiological root of the virus. In other words he says because these two groups have fairly distinct characteristics.
Locals as well as foreigners here with families are more likely to get the virus as well as spread the
virus to family members whereas the foreign workers who are living in shop houses or in dormitories with their fellow workers the likelihood is they may get it at work. Because some of these are still in essential services and they are working. A lot of them are construction workers so this really helps the government identify and track the cases.

But they've been very open i mean they've given us those numbers so it's up to us if we want to add them which i think should be done to give a real picture for the community."

When will covid 19 end in Singapore?

When will covid 19 end in Singapore? When will circuit breaker end in Singapore? These are the questions everyone is asking nowadays. The end of circuit breaker depends on the trajectory of the coronavirus cases and the respond of experts and policy makers but some data driven studies can give estimates about the end of covid 19 in Singapore.

Singapore University of Technology and Design (SUTD) provides model-based and data-driven predictions of the trajectories and end dates of COVID-19 in different countries and has been continually updating the predictions daily with the latest data. For each country, a figure is provided to visualize the estimated pandemic life cycle together with actual data to date, which further reveals the predicted inflection point and ending phase.

Only predictions with satisfactory model-data fits and statistical significance are reported. The prediction was started purely for self-curiosity regarding when COVID 19 might end in Singapore where we live and then has been expanded to cover other countries in response to requests of site visitors.

The site has unexpectedly received millions of visitors from all over the world.

According to the model, the covid 19 is estimated to end in Singapore by May 12 with 97% confidence and by May 20th with 99% confidence.

When will covid 19 end in Singapore? When will circuit breaker end in Singapore?

Lee Chong Wei sex video scandal

A sex video allegedly showing Malaysian professional badminton player Lee Chong Wei went viral but the three-time Olympic medalist has denied claims of him being in a supposed sex tape :

“It is not me.

“This is ridiculous, take one look at the video and you know it’s not me,” he was quoted in a response to the New Straits Times.“Initially I just wanted to ignore because it is just a waste of time. However it is getting out of hand and I will be lodging a police report at Bukit Aman today,” Lee was quoted saying.

You can watch the video for details.

Not amused by the video, Chong Wei has lodged a police report to clear his name yesterday. "My movie is coming out and this is some of the ways that some people are trying to bring my name into disrepute," said Chong Wei, who is married to Wong Mew Choo.

Born in Bagan Serai, Perak into a Malaysian Chinese family, Lee Chong Wei is triple silver medalist at the Olympic Games, and the sixth Malaysian to win an Olympic medal. As a singles player, Lee was ranked first worldwide for 199 consecutive weeks from 21 August 2008 to 14 June 2012. He is the fourth Malaysian player after Rashid Sidek, Roslin Hashim and Wong Choong Hann to achieve such a ranking (since official rankings were first kept in the 1980s), and is the only Malaysian shuttler to hold the number one ranking for more than a year.

Eden Ang sexual harassment allegations

31-year-old Singapore YouTube star Eden Ang from JianHao Tan, Night Owl Cinematics, and Wah!Banana has been accused of sexually harrasing an 18 years old girl by a Facebook user named Kuroe Kun. According to the Facebook post, 18 years old was a friend of Kuroe Kun and had been hired for Eden Ang’s YouTube channel. During the course of their work together, she was inappropriately touched by the actor, claimed Kuroe Kun. At one point, the friend complied to Ang’s alleged demands for her to strip to her lingerie out of fear.

Kuroe Kun also alleged that the police who handled the girls’ report of sexual harassment weren’t tactful and blamed the victim for bringing it upon herself. The post was later removed.

When it all blew up on social media, Eden Ang took to Facebook to respond. He said :

Thank you to all my family, friends, and fans who have notified me about the recent malicious allegations regarding me on Facebook. I am aware of this and I have made a police report. As always I put full faith and trust in the Singapore Police Force and the Singaporean legal system. I am fully cooperating with the authorities on the investigation of this case. Thank you to those who continue to support me and I pray these allegations come to past quickly.

 After this, YouTuber and influencer Dee Kosh released a 20 minutes video where he alleged tha he actually knew the details of Ang’s alleged sexual misconduct. According to him, Ang and 18 years old met in a boxing match. She took a video of Ang and posted it on Instagram. Ang replied to her on Instagram and they started chatting. Later Ang hired her as  his personal assistant.

Sometime later in a text exchange, Ang seemingly controlled the way she dressed. He asked her to “cover up” on one day and “dress different” on another. When she said she’d prefer to dress professionally on both days, Ang replied: “Good girls listen to daddy. You should call me that actually”. Further down the text message exchange, she told him “don’t touch me”. He replied “you wish mei mei (“little sister” in Mandarin)”.

The serious allegation is that Ang touched her ass :

Jumping forward in time, Ang messaged her to wear a “cute G”, for some reason. A G-string.
When she refused, Ang told her to listen to “daddy” and show her best asset. Later on, the girl was (allegedly) told to take off her pants, and Ang (allegedly) smacked her ass.


After this, Ang said he has been receiving death threats and is even seeking legal action against the people (Dee Kosh included, probably) who’ve continued to cast “malicious accusations”.

“I did not take advantage of anyone. I recognize that incidents like these often play out in a “he said she said” situation, but my conscience is clear and I have the records to support this. Some have pointed out that I should publicly share details to prove my position. However, I will not be sharing any further details on identity or communications out of respect for everyone’s privacy. Any further discussions can be through the authorities.”

 Singapore Police Force put out its own statement regarding the case, taking issue with is the fact that the alleged victim’s friend (Kuroe Kun) made some pretty serious claims about police officers from the Clementi Police Division.

FALSE ONLINE ALLEGATIONS AGAINST POLICE OFFICER

A netizen, Kuroe Kun, posted online on 25 January 2018 that her female friend was allegedly molested. In her post, Kuroe Kun also made allegations against an Investigation Officer (IO) from Clementi Police Division. These are serious allegations against the IO, and we have looked into it. We wish to clarify that the allegations are unfounded and false. The IO carried out his duty professionally when he attended to the female friend. The IO did not make any insensitive remarks, contrary to what has been alleged by Kuroe Kun. Neither did the IO turn Kuroe Kun's female friend away. Rather, the female friend informed the IO of her own accord that she needed time to consider about lodging a police report.

Following Kuroe Kun's online post, the Police have requested Kuroe Kun's female friend to come forward to lodge a report. However, she has not been forthcoming in her accounts to the Police and has yet to make a police report, despite our continual efforts to reach out to her.

The Police take a very serious view of all complaints or allegations made against our officers. Such complaints will be thoroughly investigated and if substantiated, the Police will not hesitate to take action against any errant officer. However, we also cannot condone malicious allegations against the Police. If the allegations are found to be false and made maliciously, appropriate action in accordance with the law will be taken.
The Police urge members of the public to post information online responsibly. We also urge the public not to speculate or spread unsubstantiated information.

The alleged victim later came out with a mumbo jumbo tone of #MeToo movement :

Hey everyone. My name is Lilith, and I am the victim in the Eden Ang scandal that is currently going on. I haven’t said anything so far because i’ve been scared. no, terrified by what speaking up would mean..for my safety, for my dignity, for my family and for my friends. But enough is enough.
It has recently come to light that there had been some discrepancies in the post that my friend had put out. I am here to set the record straight. Everything she said about Eden is true. He did touch me after me repeatedly telling him no, both online and offline. I will be filing a police report soon and will be unable to further comment on this issue. I encourage every girl out there who may feel the same way as i do, to please, speak out. Even if my coming out with this leads to being harassed and my safety being compromised, if I give courage to even just ONE other girl to stand up for what is right, this all be worth it. thank you for the support most of you have given me. I hope this step I take will be a step for change.

Eden Ang sexual harassment alleged victim

Ang has yet to issue a new statement regarding the issue, but he has already assured that he’ll be lawyering up and lodging a police report of his own.

Most popular Little India Hotels Singapore 2018

Little India is an ethnic district in central Singapore. It is located east of the Singapore River—across from Chinatown, located west of the river—and north of Kampong Glam. Little India is commonly known as Tekka in the Indian Singaporean community.

The area is a very popular place to stay in Singapore with its central location, access to MRT stations and many hotels catering to both business and leisure travelers. Generally known for budget hotels, the area also offers a few luxury and mid level Singapore hotels.

Hotel 81 Dickson  - 2 Stars
Located in Little India, Hotel 81 Dickson is just a 10-minute walk to Sim Lim Square, Bugis Street and Mustafa Centre. It is surrounded by a range of popular shops and is within a 10-minute walk of Little India MRT Station.

Moon 23 Hotel - 3.5 Star
Located in Little India, Moon 23 Hotel provides good value accommodation. It is close to the Masjid Abdul Gaffoor, dining options and shops.

Perak Hotel - 3 Star
Perak Hotel is set in Little India and is a 10-minute walk from Bugis Street. Rooms are air conditioned and a Wi-Fi connection is included free of charge.

Hotel 81 Rochor - 2 Star
Located in Little India, Hotel 81 Rochor is five minutes from Sim Lim Square and provides free Wi-Fi. It is surrounded by a range of well-known shops and is within a 10-minute walk of Bugis MRT Station.

Moon 23 Hotel provides good value accommodation. It is close to the Masjid Abdul Gaffoor, dining options and shops.

Santa Grand Hotel Little India Singapore - 2 Star
Located in Little India, Santa Grand Hotel Little India Singapore is a 10-minute walk to the Masjid Abdul Gaffoor. It is ideally positioned for guests wishing to visit local attractions.

One Farrer Hotel & Spa - 5 Star
One Farrer Hotel & Spa provides 5-star accommodation in Little India. It offers an outdoor pool, a Jacuzzi and complimentary Wi-Fi.

Wanderlust - 4 Star
This hotel is situated in Little India, just a 10-minute walk from Bugis Street. Just minutes from the Masjid Abdul Gaffoor, it features air-conditioned rooms with free Wi-Fi access.

Arianna Hotel Singapore - 1 Star
Located in Little India, Arianna Hotel Singapore is a short walk from the Masjid Abdul Gaffoor and Thekchen Choling. The air-conditioned rooms are equipped with flat-screen TVs and complimentary Wi-Fi access.

Bunc Hostel - 2 Star
Set in Little India, this modern Little India hostel provides luggage storage, a 24-hour reception and a concierge. It is conveniently positioned for those wishing to visit local attractions.

Claremont Hotel Singapore - 2 Star
Claremont Hotel Singapore is situated in Little India, only a five-minute walk to Mustafa Centre and Sri Srinivasa Perumal Temple. It also provides a 24-hour reception, an express check-in and check-out feature and a currency exchange.

For a complete list of Singapore Little India hotels and prices, visit Singapore Little India hotels page.

Most popular hotels in Singapore in 2018

Singapore offers many hotels to stay in various levels. Although the hotel prices are expensive in general compared to the rest of Asia, there are many budget hotels alongside mid level and luxury.

Marina Bay Sands - 5 Star
This 5-star hotel features the world's largest rooftop infinity pool, stunning views of the city skyline and luxury accommodation. It offers complimentary Wi-Fi, a bar and is close to Marina Bay Sands Casino.

V Hotel Lavender - 4 Star
Featuring a rooftop terrace overlooking the city, V Hotel Lavender provides air conditioned rooms with slippers, a flat-screen TV and a telephone. This modern hotel is located in Lavender.

Dorsett Singapore - 4 Star
Located in Singapore City Centre, this hotel is a 10-minute walk to The Pinnacle at Duxton and Yue Hwa Building. It also offers a Jacuzzi, free Wi-Fi and an outdoor pool.

Marina Bay Sands Hotel Singapore

Parc Sovereign Hotel - Albert Street - 4 Star
This modern hotel is situated in Singapore City Centre, and features free Wi-Fi, a rooftop pool and a playground. It is located a brief stroll from Bugis Street.

Ramada Singapore at Zhongshan Park - 4 Star
Located five minutes away from the Sun Yat Sen Nanyang Memorial Hall and Burmese Buddhist Temple, this hotel offers 4-star accommodation and a swimming pool. It also provides a coffee bar, a free shuttle service and free Wi-Fi.

Hotel G Singapore - 4 Star
Located in Singapore City Centre, this hotel is just a short stroll from the National Museum of Singapore, Bugis Street and Singapore Management University. It also offers a 24-hour reception, free Wi-Fi and an express check-in and check-out feature.

Victoria Hotel Singapore - 3 Star
Situated in Singapore City Centre, this hotel is within walking distance of the National Museum of Singapore and Bugis Street. Surrounded by local bars and restaurants, it is under 10-minutes' stroll from City Hall MRT Station.

Hotel Boss Singapore - 4 Star
This hotel is located in Lavender, and offers a swimming pool, a rooftop terrace and free Wi-Fi. There is also a fitness centre with cardiovascular equipment, a swimming pool and a cross trainer.

Concorde Hotel Singapore - 4 Star
Located in Singapore City Centre, this hotel is a 10-minute walk to Sri Temasek. Surrounded by local bars and restaurants, it is less than a 10-minute stroll from Dhoby Ghaut MRT Station.

Mandarin Orchard Singapore - 5 Star
Mandarin Orchard Singapore, located in Singapore City Centre, provides traditional accommodation and superior services and facilities. It also offers outdoor tennis courts, free Wi-Fi and a swimming pool.

Nude coffee shop waitress video featuring Jaenae with the big boobs went viral

A video of the Pattaya-based internet-famous Arisa Suwannawong a.k.a “Jaenae with the big boobs,” featured the top-heavy model wearing nothing but an apron in a video promoting Nina Coffee Shop. Thai model who posed as a nude coffee shop waitress raised an uproar on social media last week, but told Coconuts Bangkok she made the now-viral clip in a good-hearted attempt to help out the shop’s owner, who is now facing obscenity charges.

In the photos, Ming — also wearing nothing but an apron — can be seen serving coffees to male customers. Jaenae, who has more than 365,000 Facebook followers, said she she and Ming do the shoot for free — it was their idea.

If the shop was looking for attention, Jaenae’s suggestive video seems to have done the trick, with more than 1.1 million views at this point. Saucy photos of her colleague Minggomut “Ming” Kongsawas, meanwhile, were picked up by international outlets.

She claims they stopped by the coffee shop in Chonburi’s Sattahip district after a “sexy photoshoot” in Rayong and felt bad that the cafe didn’t have a lot of customers.

“I talked to the owner, and he said that no one comes to his coffee shop because it’s far from the city, so I offered to make a video and he could share it. Ming posed in the photos,” Jaenae explained.

“I wasn’t paid for this at all. I was just on my back from a photoshoot, and I was wearing sexy clothes anyway,” she said. Good Samaritans come in all shapes and sizes, folks.

Where to buy Turkish delight in Singapore?

If you are asking where to buy Turkish delight in Singapore, there are a few options you have. One of them is Straits Marine Supply online shop.

Turkish delight or lokum is a family of confections based on a gel of starch and sugar. Premium varieties consist largely of chopped dates, pistachios, and hazelnuts or walnuts bound by the gel; traditional varieties are often flavored with rosewater, mastic, Bergamot orange, or lemon. The confection is often packaged and eaten in small cubes dusted with icing sugar, copra, or powdered cream of tartar, to prevent clinging. Other common flavors include cinnamon and mint. In the production process, soapwort may be used as an emulsifying additive. The origin of the confection is not well established, but it is known to have been produced in Turkey as early as the late 1700s.

Here are some premium Turkish delight you can buy online in Singapore. For other desserts and sweets, you can visit Turkish desserts & sweets page.

Güllüoğlu Turkish Delight with Pistachio, Honey and Pomegranate : This Turkish delight is from premium variety consists largely of chopped pistachio nuts bound by the orange aroma fragranced gel infused with honey. The confection is packaged and eaten in small cubes dusted with shredded dried coconut.

Güllüoğlu Turkish Delight with Pistachio, Honey and Pomegranate

Güllüoğlu Turkish Delight with Hazelnut : This Turkish delight is from premium variety consists largely of chopped hazelnuts bound by the gel. The confection is packaged and eaten in small cubes dusted with icing sugar.

Güllüoğlu Turkish Delight with Hazelnut

Güllüoğlu Turkish Delight with Double Pistachio : This Turkish delight is from premium variety consists largely of chopped hazelnuts bound by the gel. The confection is packaged and eaten in small cubes dusted with icing sugar.

Güllüoğlu Turkish Delight with Double Pistachio